“The thing I enjoy most is being able to bask in the vulnerability that comes with queer sex, especially with other fat, Black femmes such as myself. Sometimes the mere fact of not being a normie can be a turn-on. Of the many advantages of Sapphic Love-familiarity with the equipment, better post-sex wet spot situation and a lower chance of being subjected to earnest jackhammering-one of the best is that it's not subjected to the same old hetero-normative ideas of what you're “supposed” to be doing.
